I am not stupid

My ex has retired from the Navy. Thus he is making less money. I get it. So he thought it would be a great idea to petition the state to review his child support payments before he retired, ie while he was still making money. The result.... his request to lower his payments was denied because he was still making money. Not my problem.

He moves to Arkansas - not my fault. He chooses to not use the training the Navy gave him to make good money, but to go to school to change fields. Again - not my fault.

He asks me to agree to lower the child support. Like I didn't see this coming. Then he hounds me. Somehow he seems to think that being a jerk is going to make me run out to sign papers. He needs to learn a little about trying to get what you want.

He get the kids for a month. He asks that I bring them half way. I don't have to do this, but he assumes I will. Trying to be nice, for the kids, I do. He gives me the paperwork. It is WRONG!! However, he expects me to just initial the mistakes and sign them. I AM NOT STUPID!! I am not signing incorrect paperwork.

I make the corrections and send them to his lawyer. He has proceeded to give me crap and act like a jerk about it. Ok, so what part of this did he miss? I do not have to sign them. I can force him to go all the way to a full court hearing where I can prove he is under employed. Yet he is going to be a jerk. Hmmm. Last text msg I sent told him that he is going to give me crap for something his lawyer screwed up and I am just going to sit here and smile because it isn't my fault. I said I would sign correct paperwork.

My kids are up there right now. I don't want him being an ass to them, which he has been known to do. They call me most nights and I don't want him pulling any crap with them about calling home. I am trying to be nice when all I want to tell him is to stop being an ass because I don't have to agree to jack. I can only be nice so many ways before I want to be a total *itch and tell him to back off or I sit on them, once they are fixed, until hell freezes over.