K's ex is an ass. He is suppose to have the kids back by 6 pm and it is now after 10 pm. He has decided he isn't bringing them back until tomorrow morning. Forget the fact that they have school and he is a 2 1/2 hour drive away and they have to be in school by 830 and they have long days with practices after school. Lets forget the fact that there is a court order saying he has to have them back by 6. Oh an maybe we can forget that we won't do a damn thing about it because we leave in a screwed up state and it would cause more hell for us if K did anything than if we just let it go. If we just be the adults and let it freakin go! I am pissed! How do I let it go?
No matter how it is that I do, I must let it go. If I don't I will be angry with no one to direct it at except the wrong people. The kids are 17, almost 18, and 16. If they had a major problem with it they would have used their cells and called right? So why are we so pissed off? Because he could be a man about it, no not even adult about it, and call to let us know that they are still there and what his plans were. How flippin adult is that?
I do know that this little incident has made it a little clearer about our moving in the future. If we are further away he is less of a problem for us, or at least that is the hope.
K is upset and she has every right to be. She is not sure what to do. I am assuming it will be one of those things where we just sweep it under the bridge and let it pass. If we were in another state, where we had better legal standing, we'd have more choices.
I ask for the strength, the patience, and the ability to just deal with this in the best possible way.
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